Based on the Marvel Previews #2, September for November 2012, I'd say you need to pre-order the following books in order to keep up with Spider-Man.
Core Titles
Amazing Spider-Man #697
Amazing Spider-Man #698
Amazing Spider-Man #698, ASM 50th Anniversary variant
Avenging Spider-Man #14
Marvel Universe Ultimate Spider-Man #8
Scarlet Spider #11
Ultimate Spider-Man #17
Guest Apps
A+X #2
A+X #2, variant cover Ed McGuinness
A+X #2, variant cover TBA
A+X #2, variant sketch cover Ed McGuinness
Avengers Assemble, variant cover by Joe Quesada #9, variant cover by Joe Quesada
Minimum Carnage: Omega #1
Punisher : War Zone #2
X-Treme X-men #6
Spin-Offs
Venom #27
Venom #27.1
Reprints
Carnage U.S.A. TPB
Daredevil By Mark Waid Vol. 1 HC
Daredevil By Mark Waid Vol. 2 TPB
Spider-Man: Danger Zone Premiere HC
Spider-Man: The Mutant Agenda TPB
Spider-Man: Trouble On The Horizon TPB
X-Force Omnibus HC
X-Force Omnibus HC, variant cover
X-Man: Dance With The Devil TPB